I told the tall African kid that works in the Rent-a-Tire store that he reminds me of my grandson. He raised his eyebrows and nodded his head. His skin is three shades darker than Hunter’s and he has a Mongolian spot on his right hand. Hunter’s Mongolian spot is on his back. Many mixed race children have Mongolian spots. The sign of the mixed race child is often a birthmark that looks like a bruise or a black and white inkblot on the skin... Mongolian spots come in all different shades and all different shapes like the mixed race people that wear them. They are birthright tattoos, a true indicator that America still remains a melting pot.
The next time I saw the African kid he smiled and his dimples showed. I wonder idly if he is a Gemini or a Libra. He is always polite and just a little uncomfortable that a middle-aged white woman would talk to him out of the blue.-Like my little Hunter he is always moving. He’s in his early 20’s but his eyes look ancient. I believe he is first generation Africa because I recognize the lilt in his voice. It’s almost Nigerian. Sometimes I’ll ask him where his parents came from. Like most of the immigrants I know, the African man-boy is always working.
I often grab a cappuccino at Golden Donuts. The Korean couple appears to be in their early 30’s. They owned 3 other shops which they sold for a hefty profit. They are beginning again in this location. They told me one day that they are anxious for the time when they have their nights back. Their shop is open 7 days a week and every day they come in at 3 AM to make the pastries. Every night they are asleep by 7PM. The wife wonders if she will ever be a mother.
Today I got my hair cut by Mr. Solis. He speaks broken English and calls me Miss Jackie. I like him because he flatters me. . He often needs a translator. His back has given him trouble and he has spent a lot of time in the hospital this year. He drives a new Regency which has been vandalized several times. He is the owner of several Unisex beauty shops all over town. He will close the one in Carrollton
In the same strip center where Mr. Solis’s new shop opened is an abandoned Pizza Place. The owner who goes by “Alex” is an Iranian immigrant who has been pretending to be Italian since the early eighties. .I guess it’s not pretending when you just don’t correct people who assume you’re Italian. He has been married to an American for decades and his children have no concept of their Dad’s native tongue. They speak without accents.
In nearby suburbs of Dallas they are rounding up Mexicans on any excuse and sending them back to Mexico if they believe they are illegal. Farmer’s Branch is putting laws on the books to punish Landlords who rent to them. Even the far right and out of touch Supreme Court is shooting down these horrendous local ordinances.
I live in the city. My life touches melting pot people almost every day. Last year I met a half Vietnamese man and his Russian father, who was part of the Russian dirty tricks department in the Viet Nam war. My guess is his Russian daddy lives on the edge of the law with his European partner.
I think that the half Irish ex-President of Mexico, Mr. Fox was right when he said that “Americans deny their immigrant soul”
.It is easier to accept torture as mainstream if it happens to people with darker skin than ours. It is easier to accept the border murders, profiling and discrimination of a select few if they have Spanish or Arabic surnames. The Nazis understood this in their extermination of the Gypsies. The Holocaust where millions died was not just a purge of Jews. The Gypsies, homosexuals, liberals, intellectuals and any mixed race Germans were targets. It is easy to target people who were different.
Social movements to purge a country of its minorities and immigrants always start with fear and falsehoods. “They are taking our jobs” “They are taking our healthcare’“We are poor because they are getting rich,” “I think he’s a drug dealer” “She’s living off of my tax dollars” “The are a threat to the family unit.”
Then they turn into generalizations “Mexicans are lazy…..Arabs are terrorists…Gays are immoral…Blacks are criminals….Orientals are sneaky” Fear of those that are different than the mainstream keeps us from contemplating the fact that 1/3 of Americans control over 90% of the wealth.
When Reagan left office every major economist and published theory had already proven that “trickle down economics” were a sham.Still somehow we watched as Bush and his party again inflicted them on America. Tax cuts for the wealthy….wars for the oil industry….no money for children’s healthcare…no education for poor immigrants…no civil rights for gays...
It is easier to point the finger at someone who is different to distract a country from really looking at what is happening. Hitler very effectively used this technique. I see it everywhere today. As the American dream shrinks “scapegoating” will be more and more a political tool to distract the masses. .
No one said much when the legislation was killed that robbed students whose parents came to American illegally of their dream of an education. It would have been amnesty for people whose parents committed the crime of coming to America illegally…forgiveness for the sins of the parents. In the 60’s during the busing debates voices often screamed out “Send them back to Africa” It did not matter then that all the Blacks were 3rd and 4th generation Americans.
I am convinced it is about differences. If your skin is dark or you speak with an accent you are a target. If you are gay or too intellectual you need to struggle to fit in. The American dream has always been slightly elusive. I am third generation German-English-Irish. My chances are better than the 4th generation whose ancestors were slaves.
The American dream was not stolen by people with Spanish surnames We have politicians and legislation and policies to thank... From now on every time the Supreme Court convenes expect the hard fought rights of our people to be stripped one at a time.The Constitution is being gutted and the law of the land is beginning to reflect the infection of fear and prejudice that has invaded Texas.
I am reminded of the inactivity of German intellectuals following the Nazi rise to power and the purging of their chosen targets, group after group. I may be an alarmist. After all how can it happen here?
The Mongolian Spot is a place on the skin that marks where the blood of ones parents mixes in their children. We call these spots on my grandson his rainbows. It looks like a black and yellow triangle on his back.
This video is by the Irish folk singer Christy Moore
Yellow Triangle (after Pastor Niemöller )
In Germany they first came for the Communists, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Communist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Jew.
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a trade unionist.
Then they came for the Catholics, and I didn't speak up because I was a Protestant.
Then they came for me — and by that time no one was left to speak up.
Coloconnect - Amen and amen!!!!!! I agree with this wholeheartedly. WE have four family units of refugees from Africa in our church. Three are from Liberia and one from Burundi/Congo. i love working with these people. I also have many hispanic friends. June
by Praywithhope (PM , CC ) on Tuesday October 30, 2007 @ 9:57 PM
Thank you June....in Texas today we are targeting Hispanics...it is my belief that they are only the first. The political, social and economic environment is ripe for these type of persecutions.
Have you noticed how open some of the candidates are with these prejudices disquised as "conservatism"? There are lots of local politicians who are running on platforms of hate.
I think that as a family we can all just love and be loved....but in the larger world I worry what will happen to my family....a dark skinned grandson and a gay daughter...
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Tuesday October 30, 2007 @ 11:18 PM
Coloconnect - it is no different here in Az. And yes the hatred that comes out in the political arena is sad. You are so right - we are only in the beginning. WE have forgotten where we came from. And we have forgotten what we did to the native Americans - or we actually believe we were justified; as well as how we treated the blacks. And sad to say some of the churches are not much of an example either; they buy right in to the political game. And some of them not only discriminate against the hispanics but they discriminate against the refugees too - but they send there people to work with these people in their own countries - in Africa they send workers to the refugee camps; in Mexico they go for mission trips but will not interact with them here in the neighborhood!!!! Well, I better tone it down; one of these days I am sure I will say the wrong thing in the wrong place at the wrong time - I love my refugees; I love my hispanic friends; I love my African American friends and I love my family and friends white as well as mixed races - oh and my native American friends too!!!! This next election should be very interesting! And January will be very intersting in Arizona - new laws against the immigrants that are enough to scare me never mind them! Many are leaving Az. already - June
by Praywithhope (PM , CC ) on Tuesday October 30, 2007 @ 11:28 PM
On the news daily we see the round-ups of Mexicans from places I often drive through. I too believe we are in the beginning stages. Like Arizona and California, Texas has a lot of Hispanic citizens. Many of them are 3rd generation Americans. But they have no political voice and are certainly targeted by local law enforcement.
I'm not pleased with how quickly our laws have become regressive and how the ridiculous ideas prevail that the victims of poverty (regardless of their race) are responsible for their own delimna.
The "Dream" legislation was designed to make it possible for many 1st generation students to get an education. It was favored and sponsered by Democrats and Republicans alike. But Republicans like Cronyn abandoned and voted against it when he realized that ignorance and hate were gaining momentum in his party. We will continue to penalize children for the crimes of their parents and widen the cycle of poverty. The American dream apparently has a skin color.
by Praywithhope (PM , CC ) on Wednesday October 31, 2007 @ 10:13 AM
Dear Colo, if you don't mind, I'd like to come back a little later when my mind isn't so full of the scent of sugar cookies baking, chocolates and ogre vomit dip so that I can ponder your post better.
For now, I wish you a phantistic Halloween!!!! Cheers! ~MacKenzie
by Mackenzie90 (PM , CC ) on Wednesday October 31, 2007 @ 10:30 AM
Coloconnect, That's a beautiful post. I LOVE neighborhoods where there is mixed heritage. They seem more alive. My son Jeremy, is half Peruvian. He is proud of that and so am I. Take care..
This is a terrific piece, Colo. This should be printed in your local newspaper. I've seen television commercials trying to get donations to restore the building at Ellis Island where so many of our great-grandparents were processed into the United States. Seems now the motto on the Statue of Liberty no longer applies. It seems like Americans don't think in terms of their history, they think in terms of now and their own futures, what occurs in their own lifetimes. It's very sad, and I'm glad you're doing what you can to remind people. Love you
by Daisy (PM , CC ) on Wednesday October 31, 2007 @ 9:49 PM
Coloconnect, you won the First Place Award in the Mystery Blogger Contest for guessing that Mouse was the Mystery Blogger in the Blogstream Halloween Movie!
by Dragonflower (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 1, 2007 @ 9:05 AM
Colo--
I always try to keep that idea about no one left to speak up in my head. There is that saying about speak out even if your voice trembles. I live in the south and although many people have come a long way, there is still a huge issue with racism and prejudice that flows from ignorance and people who have just not been exposed to a larger aspect of the world. Maybe one day.... Great Post!
One of the things my Mother and I argue about is her blatant racism - I judge a person by their heart not their color and she is the exact opposent. My best friend is a wonderfully beautiful black lady - and my Mother hates her. She stood in my house and called her the "N" word and I stopped it immediately. My Mother hates everyone - so I should take it personally but I am glad my friend wasn't here to hear it.
May God temper all our hearts to see the good not the color in us all - I have always wondered that if "we are made in God's image" -- He must be so beautifully colored, like a rainbow or Fall leaves, to see - and I can't wait.
by Lookin' (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 1, 2007 @ 12:18 PM
Hi there Misty...thanks for the Halloween wishes...last night was filled with lots of candy and trick or treaters...tonight I think I'll go out and play with some people of the adult variety!
by Cracker (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 1, 2007 @ 10:50 PM
Hey Colo, Good Evening. Great Post and so true. We have a very diverse group of citizens in our little town and it is great. I love to get to know those who are from other parts of the world. My granddaughter just got a boy in her kindergarten class who is from England. He went down the slide and and said, "I landed on my bum." How cute is that? Her teacher was also very excited for the students to get to learn about another country. Yes, there are differences, but so many wonderful things that are the same about different cultures. We love to watch the Amazing Race. We love to see all the different countries the contestants go through and the different customs. Sad that some people think the world needs to think like they do. The U.S. has a terrible idea that everyone on this world needs to think like us or that the Taliban think everyone should be their religion. And if they aren't then that makes them enemies. What a bunch of bull. Terrible way of thinking. Glad you wrote this particular post. Hope it opens someone's bigotry eyes. Love ya, Karen
by RoieVanBib (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 1, 2007 @ 11:17 PM
Colo that is the cutest picture!
Colo did I ever tell you about one of my grandsons who is of an interesting mix? First born of my last born and he is a cutie too. His name is Kurtis and is now 10 years old. Not only does he have my wackiness as his grandma to worry about, but his mom is an interesting mix of me and her full-blooded German father, and the boy's father was Black. I worried alot when he was a baby about all the stuff he might go through but so far he has never experienced anything of a negative nature (at least grandma hasn't been told if there has been any). I hope it continues to be that way for him and my daughter. The only thing that I have worried about is how he may feel now that he has a "white" (I really don't like the terms Black and White but I don't now what else is pc nowadays), step-father and a "white" brother and sister. Will he feel out of place, will he have trouble with his friends over it all? You know...those kinds of questions.
I don't get to see them much as they have lived in another state for a long time so I dont get to see the day to day stuff. I just hope that he will be accepted and loved for the sweet boy that he is.
And my other daughter, well, it seems you and I have lots of things in common. She is a lesbian who has for years tried to as she put it, "be who she thought she was supposed to be" because she also has children. She has now come to terms with who she is, thankfully, as she was miserable trying to be who she was not!
I, like you, just want my kids and their kids and all people in general, to be accepted and loved for who they are inside, not because of color, race, gender or gender preference. Those things don't matter, what matters is inside a person's heart, mind and spirit.
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Friday November 2, 2007 @ 3:20 AM
I worry less than I used to. It seems like if people allow themselves to be who they are they are happier. But we are entering a time when our society is going regressive (taking back all the civil and human rights gains).
I like to think I've always been color blind and not concerned with other people's sexuality, but I'm guessing I think in Black and White too often. Hunter surprises me because he thinks in shades. He calls black people brown or tan or dark...it's kind of interesting.
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Friday November 2, 2007 @ 3:39 AM
Another excellent post Ms C. I'm especially fortunate to work for a company that believes strongly in diversity. The mixture of ethnicities is a large part of what makes the job special to me. On a sadder note, I'm constantly puzzled by those, especially those who profess their devoutly Christian beliefs, who spew vile comments about people of Middle Eastern descent and those whose sexual preferences are different than theirs. There's surely some good and some bad in all of us, but it DAMN sure isn't predicated on the color of our skin, or who we choose for a mate.
I just want to say what an amazing post this is! I think we forget what a young country America actually is. None of us is very far removed from an immigrant ancestor. We are all really naturailzed citzens. If we start with all the anti-immigrant nonsense, then we in essence are saying that none of us belong here. It's all relative, aint it? If we just took even a baby step back in time to the 16th and 17th centuries, I wonder what an indeginous American would say he thought about the white Protestant immigrants coming to his country?
Human beings sure do migrate, don't they? Across every kind of border...geographic, religious, race, sexuality, etc. Always have...always will. Certain things tell me immigration is the natural order of progress. Mixed-race children are almost always the most stunningly beautiful and second generation Africans and Asians are almost always the biggest cheerleaders for the US.
We have no right in a country like ours to deny immigration on what is essentially a whim. You don't have to back many generations to realize that we are all immigrants.
GREAT POST! I remember reading the powerful poem at the end. We should see that piece more often. T
by Biggie T (PM , CC ) on Friday November 2, 2007 @ 6:54 AM
What a powerful heart breaking post Colo. I loved it. Thinking of myself in this little town of 1,900, I see the diversity all around.
In my family, we have Japanese and Philippino and Mallato. I love it too, and recently at my Moms birthday party my cousin brought her two grandchildren who were Mallato. They played with my grandson, and it was a sight for the angels.
Children, you know, are color blind. It is not until their parents start singling out color and race, that they play differently. I watched this for 22 years while teaching in an elementary school.
Good written post girl, and will read it again....Love ya, Heide
by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Friday November 2, 2007 @ 11:35 PM
It all comes down to human decency...to look past religion, race, nationality...treat others as we want to be treated. ANd there is a lot of greed. The ones at the 'top' never have enuff. And our country is falling apart becuz of all of it.
Where is the compassion? Taking care of one another?
by HeatherScot (PM , CC ) on Friday November 2, 2007 @ 11:43 PM
So true Captain...I think that most societies have a tendency to put people in little boxes...I just find it disheartening that in America for awhile we made so much progress in opening up the boxes and rejecting the rhetoric...and now we seem to be moving quickly to square one again.
It is always a great pleasure to see you dropping in!
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Saturday November 3, 2007 @ 12:10 AM
I had the funny idea that you might write something someday about America being a melting pot....maybe your next book Congratulations on being published!!!!
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Sunday November 4, 2007 @ 1:03 AM
Hey there Daisy! I'm not sure that any country learns from it's history. We seem to be so self repeating that we will take the worst eras of anyones history and work hard to recreate them...At any rate I'm hoping not to repeat my own history these days...
I am waiting to wake up again...and I do believe my old optimism will be along soon
by Heide (PM , CC ) on Sunday November 4, 2007 @ 2:16 PM
Colo --- I'm beginning to believe that nobody has a handle on what is going on. Each side has convincing arguments. Yours - in your blog - were important points and ones that made sense to me in a logical way ... but - as always there are 'two sides' to this coin, and though I cannot articulate it - at least tonight - in such a convincing way as you did - I still know it (the other side) is out there and it too, is convincing and makes sense in a logical way...
Excellent post. Is it a human foible that 'we' have to make ourselves look or feel better about being ourselves by putting someone else down? I hate seeing the de-humanization of people. I could probably list 6 or 7 different nationalities of my own, then my kids add another 2 to the family tree. I think those laws for landlords were judged unconstitutional.
Darling grandchildren! I'd bet Venus has a hand in creating those dimples, so I might go with Libra. Take care.
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Tuesday November 6, 2007 @ 3:04 AM
Thanks so much Karen. It is strange how hate and fear are general. Once we have a name and face it makes it so much harder to feel those things. I appreciate your reading this one. I needed to write it.
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Tuesday November 6, 2007 @ 3:12 AM
I worry less than I used to. If anyone knew our grandchildren and daughters it would be impossible to discriminate against them....that type of undercurrent is always so impersonal....looks like we have a lot in common dragonflower
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Tuesday November 6, 2007 @ 3:32 AM
Colo, Maybe in Hunter's lifetime there will become no "us" and "them", but simply "us". We can hope and pray that this becomes so and work to make it happen.
Hunter is adorable Jackers. Interestingly enough Miss Colleenie has a mongolian spot on her back. She is only 1/16 Native American but looks 100 percent Native, like her Dad. Great Post Girl!
by blumoon (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 8, 2007 @ 8:18 AM
Good morning, Colo! It is amazing how people's imaginations go wild. Not taking the time to understand another culture which buys into the whole prejudice then fear and anger, and Divine forbid be spurned into action.... it's Scary!!!
We live in a small New England fishing village. The main part of the community appears to have that full blooded Puritan ancestry. It's a very ummm.... white loving, male dominated culture around here. Women should know their place and stay there. It's pathetic that people still refer to "Nigga Hill" (named after a cemetary where, after the Civil War, a small group of African Americans who moved to the area are buried) when giving directions. A few years back when a new store opened in the area focusing on ethnic foods (mainly Mexican as there is a growing Mexican community around here), the call went out for NO ONE to go there in hopes that it would go under and "those" people would leave. The store, unfortunately did go under although as far as I can tell, the communities remain the same.
We all come from One Source, no matter what we look like, the way we sound, what we believe. Our hearts beat, the color of our blood all the same, we all have the same emotions and the need for clean air to breathe, nourishment for our bodies as well as our souls. The way one accomplishes that may be different, but how unique, how wonderful that makes human beings.....
Take care, Colo! I appreciate you letting me ramble... Cheers! ~MacKenzie
by Mackenzie90 (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 8, 2007 @ 9:04 AM
Hi rasberrytoast....How true is that? I think you are right. Prejudice in the South is the ignorance that grows in the dark. It does seem to me that some of the most prejudiced people are dealing in general terms and do not vent their hate on specific targets. Once you put a name and face on them they back down. It is easier to hate the things we don't know or understand.
Good to see you. Maybe this weekend I'll catch up with the stream!
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 8, 2007 @ 9:46 AM
Thanks Biggie....lately I have started to think too much again. We had a visit from ex President Fox in Texas and his idea that we are the nation of immigrants who deny our own soul seems true to me. Thank you so much for reading this post...sorry I didn't respond sooner!
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 8, 2007 @ 2:30 PM
A great entry.
We are tribal creatures. My tribe is better than yours. It helped homo sapiens survive. These days, however, the tribe translates to a nation, state, etc., skin color, dialect, religion, church, profession......ad nauseum, ad bellum. See my 8/17 entry.
And the quote from the Lutheran minister is so applicable. I referred to it back in 5/15 in reference to a local politics issue.
by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Sunday November 11, 2007 @ 1:34 AM
Fear and paranoia are often cited as the root causes of bigotry. But as this story from the film "Mississipi Burning" shows, there's also issues of a lack of self-esteem, poverty, false pride and an desire to tear others down in order to make yourself look better.
This was Agent Anderson's (Gene Hackman) response when Agent Ward (Willem Defoe) asked him why there was so much hate and bigotry...
"You know, when I was a little boy...there was an old Negro farmer lived down the road from us, name of Monroe. And he was... well, I guess he was just a little luckier than my daddy was. He bought himself a mule. That was a big deal around that town.
My daddy hated that mule. His friends kidded him that they saw Monroe ploughin' with his new mule...and Monroe was gonna rent another field now that he had a mule.
One morning that mule just showed up dead. They poisoned the water. After that there was never any mention about that mule around my daddy.
One time we were drivin' past Monroe's place and we saw it was empty. He'd just packed up and left, I guess. Gone up North or somethin'. I looked over at my daddy's face...and I knew he'd done it. And he saw that I knew.
He looked at me and he said - "If you ain't better than a nigger, son, who are you better than?"
by Praywithhope (PM , CC ) on Monday November 12, 2007 @ 11:36 AM
I had noticed that children are "colorblind" ....the world would be so much better if we could see through their eyes...instead it seems as they grow up they learn to see color through the eyes of adults.
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Monday November 12, 2007 @ 11:40 PM
Mac you are a rare jewel...It is in the mixing and melding that America gets it's power and it's strength...how sad there is so often a denial of who we are...Maybe we will become a truly great people when we realize that diversity is strength and should be embraced
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Tuesday November 13, 2007 @ 2:36 AM
Oh Colo, I am burning up here in NEast Texas.....Ugh!!!! Come on cool spell.....This ol woman is off of her hormones now for four months, and man oh man......I need the AC 24/7....Poor ol hubby.
The colorblind children are such a treat. Then when parents realize they are choosing kids to run with that are of different color/race/dads in prison/mother bar tends/different religion/ all *#++ breaks lose. Poor kids. If adults could only be like first/second graders all their lives. You are not born prejudice and racist...You ARE made that way....
by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Wednesday November 14, 2007 @ 1:28 PM
Thanks Randy....It's always good to see you. I have been a little sidelined the last couple of weeks but I'll start blogging more when I finish stirring my life!
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 15, 2007 @ 3:18 AM
Fascinating Mokie....and it almost made me cry.
I wonder how often that racism creates a self repeating cycle and how often it opens the eyes of the next generation. The sins of the father may have long shadows or they may create light when seen up close and personal.
by Prank (PM , CC ) on Thursday November 15, 2007 @ 9:00 PM
Hi Colo,
I love the description of what you call the Mongolian spots.....rainbows. It should always be like this.....thank-you for reminding us of where we need to be!
by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Monday November 19, 2007 @ 10:20 AM
Colo...I sure hope you are on some sort of vacation...I thought I might have pissed you off or hurt your feelin's or some dumb thing...so I came by to see what was up and see the same post for awhile...so...you okay?...don't worry an ole woman Colo..(((hugs))) ..be okay...okay?
by Cracker (PM , CC ) on Monday November 19, 2007 @ 2:07 PM
Colo..that was a great post...that is a subject that my family and I were speaking about just the other nite ...you said it well.. Now..I've got to ask about he Mongolian spot...are you sure about it being of a mix race???..one of my son's was born with one..at least that is what the Dr called it...and I know my hubby and I are both of white national..Just curious..ummm..I will have to go look that up..well ok then..again..your post was great..and your grandson is adorable... You take care and have a very Happy Thanksgiving... www.commentbaby.com
by ^BELLE^ (PM , CC ) on Tuesday November 20, 2007 @ 12:21 PM
Well, if this scene was a winter one, it might be a little more appropriate, don't you think??? But it's so pretty... And really, I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you.
May the sun be shining where you are, Colo. Do take care!
by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Wednesday November 21, 2007 @ 9:51 AM
I miss you too Belle....My Mom has been in the hospital and things have been a little dicey around here....looks like I'll get some time off starting tomorrow and I plan on catching up with you...
Lately I have been too exhausted to blog on my late night schedule. Gotta go to work right now.
by ^BELLE^ (PM , CC ) on Wednesday November 21, 2007 @ 10:37 AM
I see our connections are still strong my dear.I got on my blog and answered one comment and it was you...and you were there. KISMET...thanks for thinking of my Mom. She is making a phenomonal recovery.
Have you noticed how open some of the candidates are with these prejudices disquised as "conservatism"? There are lots of local politicians who are running on platforms of hate.
Why can't we all just love and be loved?
I am always glad to see you whispered!
I'm not pleased with how quickly our laws have become regressive and how the ridiculous ideas prevail that the victims of poverty (regardless of their race) are responsible for their own delimna.
The "Dream" legislation was designed to make it possible for many 1st generation students to get an education. It was favored and sponsered by Democrats and Republicans alike. But Republicans like Cronyn abandoned and voted against it when he realized that ignorance and hate were gaining momentum in his party. We will continue to penalize children for the crimes of their parents and widen the cycle of poverty. The American dream apparently has a skin color.
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Dear Colo, if you don't mind, I'd like to come back a little later when my mind isn't so full of the scent of sugar cookies baking, chocolates and ogre vomit dip so that I can ponder your post better.
For now, I wish you a phantistic Halloween!!!!
Cheers! ~MacKenzie
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I've seen television commercials trying to get donations to restore the building at Ellis Island where so many of our great-grandparents were processed into the United States. Seems now the motto on the Statue of Liberty no longer applies.
It seems like Americans don't think in terms of their history, they think in terms of now and their own futures, what occurs in their own lifetimes. It's very sad, and I'm glad you're doing what you can to remind people.
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I always try to keep that idea about no one left to speak up in my head.
There is that saying about speak out even if your voice trembles. I live in the south and although many people have come a long way, there is still a huge issue with racism and prejudice that flows from ignorance and people who have just not been exposed to a larger aspect of the world. Maybe one day....
Great Post!
One of the things my Mother and I argue about is her blatant racism - I judge a person by their heart not their color and she is the exact opposent. My best friend is a wonderfully beautiful black lady - and my Mother hates her. She stood in my house and called her the "N" word and I stopped it immediately. My Mother hates everyone - so I should take it personally but I am glad my friend wasn't here to hear it.
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Colo did I ever tell you about one of my grandsons who is of an interesting mix? First born of my last born and he is a cutie too. His name is Kurtis and is now 10 years old. Not only does he have my wackiness as his grandma to worry about, but his mom is an interesting mix of me and her full-blooded German father, and the boy's father was Black. I worried alot when he was a baby about all the stuff he might go through but so far he has never experienced anything of a negative nature (at least grandma hasn't been told if there has been any). I hope it continues to be that way for him and my daughter. The only thing that I have worried about is how he may feel now that he has a "white" (I really don't like the terms Black and White but I don't now what else is pc nowadays), step-father and a "white" brother and sister. Will he feel out of place, will he have trouble with his friends over it all? You know...those kinds of questions.
I don't get to see them much as they have lived in another state for a long time so I dont get to see the day to day stuff. I just hope that he will be accepted and loved for the sweet boy that he is.
And my other daughter, well, it seems you and I have lots of things in common. She is a lesbian who has for years tried to as she put it, "be who she thought she was supposed to be" because she also has children. She has now come to terms with who she is, thankfully, as she was miserable trying to be who she was not!
I, like you, just want my kids and their kids and all people in general, to be accepted and loved for who they are inside, not because of color, race, gender or gender preference. Those things don't matter, what matters is inside a person's heart, mind and spirit.
I like to think I've always been color blind and not concerned with other people's sexuality, but I'm guessing I think in Black and White too often. Hunter surprises me because he thinks in shades. He calls black people brown or tan or dark...it's kind of interesting.
It's all relative, aint it? If we just took even a baby step back in time to the 16th and 17th centuries, I wonder what an indeginous American would say he thought about the white Protestant immigrants coming to his country?
Human beings sure do migrate, don't they? Across every kind of border...geographic, religious, race, sexuality, etc. Always have...always will. Certain things tell me immigration is the natural order of progress. Mixed-race children are almost always the most stunningly beautiful and second generation Africans and Asians are almost always the biggest cheerleaders for the US.
We have no right in a country like ours to deny immigration on what is essentially a whim. You don't have to back many generations to realize that we are all immigrants.
GREAT POST! I remember reading the powerful poem at the end. We should see that piece more often.
In my family, we have Japanese and Philippino and Mallato. I love it
too, and recently at my Moms birthday party my cousin brought her two grandchildren who were Mallato. They played with my grandson, and it was a sight for the angels.
Children, you know, are color blind. It is not until their parents start singling out color and race, that they play differently. I watched this for 22 years while teaching in an elementary school.
Good written post girl, and will read it again....Love ya, Heide
I just wanted to come by to tell you thanks for all your friendship and support, Colo.
But your topics are so amazing...for lack of a better word.
Funny cause right now we are listening to some Cuban music...lol.
I never would have imagined..
Love you and miss you..
J2J
Where is the compassion? Taking care of one another?
It is always a great pleasure to see you dropping in!
Happy Saturday Night !
Happy Fall Back Day!
I am waiting to wake up again...and I do believe my old optimism will be along soon
Beautiful photos!
Be Blessed,
PJ
Being kind to one another no matter what our color or race is catching on these days.
My children taught me years and years ago, what was right, and what was wrong. We just need to listen to our childrens hearts.
I felt so ashamed when my five year old son corrected me concerning a precious black friend.
Bless you Colo....Heide
so.... where are we now?
good blog, good points, ...
ice
The Mexicans and Asians are some of the hardest working people in our area.
Darling grandchildren! I'd bet Venus has a hand in creating those dimples, so I might go with Libra. Take care.
AD
I taught a class on multiculturalism - almost everyone of the 15 students had either bi-racial children or biracial grandchildren
ron
Maybe in Hunter's lifetime there will become no "us" and "them", but simply "us". We can hope and pray that this becomes so and work to make it happen.
We live in a small New England fishing village. The main part of the community appears to have that full blooded Puritan ancestry. It's a very ummm.... white loving, male dominated culture around here. Women should know their place and stay there. It's pathetic that people still refer to "Nigga Hill" (named after a cemetary where, after the Civil War, a small group of African Americans who moved to the area are buried) when giving directions. A few years back when a new store opened in the area focusing on ethnic foods (mainly Mexican as there is a growing Mexican community around here), the call went out for NO ONE to go there in hopes that it would go under and "those" people would leave. The store, unfortunately did go under although as far as I can tell, the communities remain the same.
We all come from One Source, no matter what we look like, the way we sound, what we believe. Our hearts beat, the color of our blood all the same, we all have the same emotions and the need for clean air to breathe, nourishment for our bodies as well as our souls. The way one accomplishes that may be different, but how unique, how wonderful that makes human beings.....
Take care, Colo! I appreciate you letting me ramble...
Cheers! ~MacKenzie
Good to see you. Maybe this weekend I'll catch up with the stream!
We are tribal creatures. My tribe is better than yours. It helped homo sapiens survive. These days, however, the tribe translates to a nation, state, etc., skin color, dialect, religion, church, profession......ad nauseum, ad bellum. See my 8/17 entry.
And the quote from the Lutheran minister is so applicable. I referred to it back in 5/15 in reference to a local politics issue.
This was Agent Anderson's (Gene Hackman) response when Agent Ward (Willem Defoe) asked him why there was so much hate and bigotry...
"You know, when I was a little boy...there was an old Negro farmer lived down the road from us, name of Monroe. And he was... well, I guess he was just a little luckier than my daddy was. He bought himself a mule. That was a big deal around that town.
My daddy hated that mule. His friends kidded him that they saw Monroe ploughin' with his new mule...and Monroe was gonna rent another field now that he had a mule.
One morning that mule just showed up dead. They poisoned the water. After that there was never any mention about that mule around my daddy.
One time we were drivin' past Monroe's place and we saw it was empty. He'd just packed up and left, I guess. Gone up North or somethin'. I looked over at my daddy's face...and I knew he'd done it. And he saw that I knew.
He looked at me and he said - "If you ain't better than a nigger, son, who are you better than?"
Yes, I remember Dallas as being much more of a melting pot than here in rural Alabama, for sure!
Hi there Heide hope all is well with you.
The colorblind children are such a treat. Then when parents realize they are choosing kids to run with that are of different color/race/dads in prison/mother bar tends/different religion/ all *#++ breaks lose. Poor kids. If adults could only be like first/second graders all their lives. You are not born prejudice and racist...You ARE made that way....
Hope your week is going great. Love ya,
Loveya, Celtic Mist
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I wonder how often that racism creates a self repeating cycle and how often it opens the eyes of the next generation. The sins of the father may have long shadows or they may create light when seen up close and personal.
Love, Celtic Mist
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and wanted to come by and
let you know you are in
my thoughts this beautiful
fall. Hope all is well
friend.
I love the description of what you call the Mongolian spots.....rainbows. It should always be like this.....thank-you for reminding us of where we need to be!
Hope you have a good day!!
Loveya, Celtic Mist
Loveya, Celtic Mist
Loveya, Celtic Mist
Now..I've got to ask about he Mongolian spot...are you sure about it being of a mix race???..one of my son's was born with one..at least that is what the Dr called it...and I know my hubby and I are both of white national..Just curious..ummm..I will have to go look that up..well ok then..again..your post was great..and your grandson is adorable...
You take care and have a very Happy Thanksgiving...
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Loveya, Celtic Mist
Happy Thanksgiving!
Well, if this scene was a winter one, it might be a little more appropriate, don't you think??? But it's so pretty... And really, I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you.
May the sun be shining where you are, Colo. Do take care!
Cheers! ~MacKenzie
Loveya, Celtic Mist
Lately I have been too exhausted to blog on my late night schedule. Gotta go to work right now.
Love you
Jackie
Happy Thanksgiving...
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